Happy Anniversary!

Marriage

It has been a year since we signed on the dotted line to be legally bound to each other.

For the past 6 years before our marriage, my husband and I were almost glued to each other and have never been apart for more than a month.

This time round, we have been separated for more than 3 months.

During this period, I have reflected on our marriage. Maybe the fact that we have been always together made marriage the natural next step in life. We have been through disputes, taken steps back to accommodate and finally find a balance in our relationship. Hence, marriage has seemed to be an inevitable next step.

However, during the recent 3 months, when my husband went overseas to work, it makes me understand and discover many things and to reflect once again on our relationship.

When two become one, what is it about?

Is it about losing part of ourselves to take in another one?

Without him, many decisions in life will be made differently. A simple thing like how I will spend my weekend is  a lot different with and without him.

Why should we get married?

After much reflection, I have listed the following.

1. Lifetime Companion

We as human beings have the desire to find companionship be it friends, family or partner. It’s a natural instinct that we do not like being alone and yearn to have a sense of belonging in a group.

Moreover, it is true that opposite genders have natural attraction to each other, though most of the time, it’s physical. The union of a man and woman is almost purely a human desire to feel complete.

Of course, not all people will find their half. Especially in current society where people are more independent and woman being less dependent. For such cases, we seek alternatives or find comfort from friends and family.

So it seems like there’s no need to be married if there’re other sources of companionship.

But ideally, marriage is a desired source since friends and family may not be able to be with you all the time.

2. Procreation and Building of Family

I personally think that it’s almost a MUST for all married couple to try to have babies. This may be one of the ultimate goals in marriage. Without the needs to procreate and to provide children with a complete normal family, it may not even be necessary to be married.

3. Emotion and Financial Support

We seek emotion and financial support through companionship. In difficult times, we all seek support. A husband and wife structure, in my opinion, is the best source of constant support. I guessed that’s why before we sign on the paper, we have to swear to love and care for each other through sickness and difficult times.

Human beings have strong adaptability since we have evolved through centuries to become the most intelligent animal on planet.  Husband and wife relationship may seem to be less important as people adapt and forge alternative relationships for support. 
However, I do believe marriage can help two people who complement each other to become better. 

Marriage is not to consume individuality. 
Without each other, we should still be able to stand on our own with our own source of support and social circle. I am glad that my husband has gone overseas during this period; it makes me understand the importance of my other parts of life such as friends and career. Friends for emotional support and career to be financially sound.

I used to think that when two persons get married, they should be glued to each other.  This is not true.

When two persons get married, it supposed to be more than one. We should be able to love and develop ourselves more and provide freedom to each other.  Of course, to love each other more each day.

Happy Anniversary, my dearest half.

You have made me complete and provide me with the security to be the best of me.
I love you.

Our 7 Years Journey..................

Married you and be with you....

Travel the world with you.....

                                                  Bangkok                  

                                               Vietnam

Taiwan

Hong Kong

 Korea

Those were the days...

During university time.
Thanks for following me and being by my side even when I pushed you away

Celebrations of the date when you are born. 

Black and White Romance.
I never thought we will really be married when we took this set of photos for my friend project



Thanks for being in this journey with me and
let's write more stories.
Forever and ever after

With Love,
TwentySixOctober

Introducing Studio Sands!

Want to get fit? 

Want to feel sexy?

Being a woman, I always believe that it's important for us to keep fit and to feel good about ourselves.

"世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人" 

Wish for a good and fun way to do it.

How about Pole Dancing? 

In the past, people often associate pole dancing with night life and sleazy activities. 

However, in our society today, more and more people has accepted pole dancing as a healthy and interesting activity to train our fitness and body control.

Pole dancing has evolved to become a popular sport for women from all age groups.

To learn pole dancing, I'll like to introduce you Studio Sands!

A new pole dance studio conveniently located near Outram MRT. 

23A Kampong Bahru Road

#02-02

Singapore 169 349

(Outram MRT exit G)

Check out the website for direction: http://studiosands.com.sg/pages/find-us

A cozy and romantic studio with one-way window which allows you to have a good view while maintaining privacy

If you are not sure of what type of outfits to wear, Studio Sands has pole dancing outfit for sales

With Instructor Sandra

Studio Sands is a new pole dance studio opened by my beloved friend. 

To show my support, I have signed up for her Kpop classes.  

Prior to joining Studio Sands, I have no pole dancing experience (except for one time during my hen's party organized by my girlfriends). 

I had this perception that my arms are weak and I can't imagine myself supporting my whole body weight on a pole. 

After attending the 1st lesson, I realized that my worries were unnecessary.  

I've learnt a few moves from her class and discovered that pole dancing is not just about strength, it's also about having the momentum and skills. 

After one lesson, I am surprised that I can actually do it! 

Besides learning to look sexy, pole dancing also gives women CONFIDENT when we attained the strength to control our body.

So let's join Studio Sands. 

Don't worry if you have no experience, because every women have the ability to control our body and to look sexy. 

Check out for the classes now: 

Studio Sands is having an opening promotion!

You may sign up with your friend to enjoy S$20 discount off your bill. 

Click on to the following link to book a course NOW!

http://studiosands.com.sg/pages/new-book-a-course

XOXO, 

TwentySixOctober

7 Things to do at Telok Ayer Street

Telok Ayer Street

Reminiscent of old Singapore.

Along the street, you will see many old Singapore architectures maintaining their original look.

In recent years, there have been many new eateries and boutiques waking up this old street.

If you have time, it's pretty good to take a walk along this street to enjoy good food and learn some history of Singapore.

Here I like to introduce my 
top 7 things to do at Telok Ayer Street

1) Brunch at My Awesome Cafe, 真棒堂

My Awesome Cafe is simply an awesome place to enjoy good coffee and brunch. 

It is hidden beneath the 中华医院 with scent of the old building.

Located at 202 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068639 

Website: http://www.myawesomecafe.com

Opening Hours:

Mon - Tue: 7.45am - 9.00pm

Wed - Fri: 7.45am - 12.00am

Sat - Sun: 10am - 3.00pm

2) Brunch at Sarnies 

Sarnies is another popular brunch place located at 136 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068601 

Website: http://www.sarniescafe.com/

Operating Hours:

Mon - Fri: 7.00am - 10pm (kitchen closes at 9.30pm)

Sat, Sun: 9.00am - 4.00pm

3) Explore the history of Singapore 

After brunch, you may walk along the street to learn more about the old Singapore.

Telok Ayer is a Malay name which means "bay water" because this street used to be the coastal road along the bay. 

In 1822, Telok Ayer was the primary area set aside by Sir Stamford Raffles for the Chinese community.

Telok Ayer Street become one of the first streets in Chinatown and formed the backbone of development for the Chinese immigrant community in early Singapore.

Till today, you can still see many Chinese associations and companies located along the street.

You will also see Chinese temples in this area which were built by Chinese immigrants to show gratitude for safe passage.

4) Shop at DOORSTEP LUXURY.COM 

Have enough of history?

Step back to modern times by visiting the Doorstep Luxury.com which showcases bags and accessories from designers all over the world.

Doorstep Luxury.com is located at 163 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068616 

Website: http://doorstepluxury.com/

Opening Hours:

Mon - Thur: 11am - 8.00pm

Fri: 11.00am - 8.30pm

Sat: 11.00am - 5.00pm

Closed on Sunday and Public holiday

5) Chill at Nanyang Old Coffee 

Learnt enough and shopped enough?

Time to chill at a coffee place to enjoy Singapore traditional coffee after a long day

Nanyang Old Coffee is located at 204 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068640 

Website: http://nanyangoldcoffee.com/

Operating Hours:

Mon - Fri: 7.30am - 4.00pm

6) Have a bread at Sophie Bakery

It's great to enjoy bread with a nice cup of coffee.

You can walk to the nearby Sophie Bakery located at 167, 169 Telok Ayer Street, 068618, to enjoy authentic French bakery.

Website: http://www.sophiebakery.sg/

Operating Hours:

Mon - Fri: 7.00am - 8.00pm

Sat: 8.00am - 7.00pm

Sun: 8.00am - 6.00pm

7) Dinner at The Market Grill 

End the day with a good dinner.

The Market Grill locates at 208 Telok Ayer Street, Singapore 068642 

Website: http://themarketgrill.com.sg/

Opening Hours:

Mon - Sat:

Lunch: 11.30am - 2.30pm

Dinner: 6.00pm - 10.00pm

Closed on Sunday

That’s all about Telok Ayer Street for today.

Bye bye ~~

TwentySixOctober 

Can't Sleep

When you're gone. Where should I go?

When there's an emptiness. How can it be filled?

When thing changes. Will it reverses?

It's about you 

Or 

It's about me 

Review: Alive Museum Singapore

[Sponsored Advertorial]

South Korea's first and original 3D entertainment attraction "Alive Museum" has arrived Singapore!

A photo-taking lover?

or

Not sure what to do in Singapore?

Come visit Alive Museum!

Instead of flying to Korea, we can now enjoy the sensory experience that tricks one's visual perception in Singapore.

Alive Museum, originated from South Korea in 2009, has opened a branch in Singapore!
Alive Museum is a 3D visual illusion museum which allows visitors to take photos with clever paintings, digital art pieces and unique art objects. It is a popular attraction for tourists all around the world.  

Alive museum currently has a total of 15 branches: eight in South Korea, three in China and one each in Thailand, Vietnam, Turkey and recently in Singapore.
The largest branch is in Jeju Island which has at least 1.5 million visitors per year.

All their artworks are hand-painted and handcrafted by Alive Museum's own team of talented artists from South Korea.
Moreover, to stay current and to attract return visitors, about 30% of the collections are refreshed every year and special exhibits are held during major holiday seasons such as Christmas and Chinese New Year.

What's so unique about Alive Museum in Singapore?

1. There are over 80 master pieces, of which 9 are locally themed and unique to Singapore
2. Singapore 50 project: The museum will engage local communities through teachers, students and Singaporeans from various walk of life to create artworks that they think define the essence of Singapore. Of these, 20 entries will be showcased in Alive Museum Singapore by year-end, bringing total number of artworks to more than 100. More information will be released at the later stag
3. Looking for an unconventional venue? Alive Museum allows visitor to book their private function room (can host up to 60 guests) for special events such as birthday party 

Welcome to our Lala Land where everything you see here are Fantasies

Once upon a time, there were two curious girls named 

Sandra & Evelyn. 

They found a painting on the wall. 

and were memorized by it.

They accidentally pulled the frame 

and water started to gush out of it..

And they started their fantasies ......

Evelyn & Sandra in Wonder Land

Sailing by the river

OMG!

 Sandra was sucked into the pool

Evelyn came to rescue

They both went into the sea.

Woke up in the morning & realized that they have turned into

little mermaids under the Sea

Little mermaids met Spider-man and 

immediately they fell in love

They found out Spider-man has an affair.

Out of anger, they killed spiderman &

ruled the world.

All men shall now obey

They love to dance

So Do You Think You Can Dance?

Dance like Michael Jackson

                                                   Ballet

Disco Dance

Jump & Jump

Pole Dance

They love adventures and often get into trouble

Escaped from the crocodile!

Escaped from the dead!

The side view.

 

Caught by an elephant

Caught by the cat

However, they were strong enough to fight back

But they couldn't escape from God's hand

Save Me!

So they prayed to God

God listened to their prayer and sent a bird to rescue them

But they fell off from the sky

.

.

.

And became

ANGELS

~The end~

Location: 

Suntec City Mall, #03-372 (between Tower 3 & 4)

Operating Hours:

10am - 10pm Dailu (Last Admission at 9pm)

Ticket Prices:

Adult: S$25
Children (3-12 yrs): S$20
Children (<3yrs): F.O.C.
Family (2 adult + 1 child): S$60, additional S$10 per child (up to max 3 children)

PROMOTION (Till 30th September 2014)

Simply "Like" Alive Museum on Facebook and get a free meal at Burger King Suntec with purchase of full-priced tickets

Visit website @promotion for more details. 

Thank You OMY for the invite!

& Thanks Sandra for accompanying me! 

*warning: you may wish to visit during non-peak hour (e.g. 10am) to have a comfortable and pleasant photo-taking experience

With Love,

TwentySixOctober